Relocating with Children: What Northern Beaches Parents Need to Know

Relocation is one of the most difficult and emotionally charged issues parents can face after separation. For families on Sydney’s Northern Beaches, decisions about moving — whether locally, interstate or overseas — often involve balancing work opportunities, support networks and children’s stability.

If you are considering relocating with your children, it is important to understand how family law approaches relocation and what steps should be taken before any move occurs.

What does “relocation” mean in family law?

In family law, relocation generally refers to a move that would significantly impact the other parent’s ability to spend time with the children. This can include:

  • Moving to another suburb a substantial distance away

  • Relocating interstate

  • Moving overseas

Even moves within the greater Sydney area can sometimes raise issues if they affect schooling, travel time or existing parenting arrangements.

Can I relocate with my children without the other parent’s consent?

In most cases, no. If there are existing parenting orders or an established care arrangement, relocating without consent can place you at risk of breaching court orders or triggering urgent court proceedings.

If both parents agree, relocation can usually proceed by:

  • Updating parenting arrangements via a Parenting Plan

  • Formalising the agreement through consent orders

If there is no agreement, court approval may be required before the move occurs.

How does the Court decide relocation cases?

The Court’s primary focus is always the best interests of the child, not the convenience or preference of either parent.

When considering relocation, the Court may look at:

  • The child’s relationship with each parent

  • The practical impact of the move on time and communication

  • Schooling and stability

  • The reasons for the proposed relocation

  • Whether workable alternative arrangements are available

Relocation cases are complex and highly fact-specific. There is no automatic right to relocate, even where one parent is the primary carer.

Do I need to go to Court if relocation is an issue?

Not always. Many Northern Beaches parents are able to resolve relocation issues through:

  • Early legal advice

  • Mediation or Family Dispute Resolution (FDR)

  • Negotiated parenting arrangements

Court proceedings may become necessary where:

  • There is strong disagreement

  • One parent intends to move urgently

  • Safety concerns or international relocation are involved

Seeking advice early can often prevent matters escalating unnecessarily.

Timing matters in relocation decisions

One of the most common mistakes parents make is raising relocation too late, or making plans before understanding their legal position.

Before committing to:

  • A job offer requiring a move to a new area

  • A lease or property purchase

  • School enrolments

It is important to understand how relocation may affect parenting arrangements and what approvals are required.

Getting the right advice early

Relocation matters can be stressful and emotionally exhausting, particularly when children’s futures are involved. Having clear advice early can help parents understand their options, assess risks and make informed decisions.

A measured, child-focused approach often leads to more workable outcomes and reduces the emotional toll on families.

Support for Northern Beaches parents

Wallen Family Law supports parents across Sydney’s Northern Beaches, including Warriewood, Mona Vale, Dee Why, Brookvale and Manly, with relocation matters involving children. With a local Warriewood office, we provide clear, practical guidance tailored to your circumstances, whether relocation can be resolved by agreement or requires court involvement.

If you are considering a move and are unsure where you stand, a short conversation can help clarify your options.

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Disclaimer: This article provides general information only and should not be relied upon as legal advice. Every family law matter is unique and requires specific legal guidance. Always seek professional legal advice for your specific situation.

Melody van der Wallen - Principal Lawyer

Melody van der Wallen is the Principal Lawyer at Wallen Family Law, with more than a decade of experience in family, property, and commercial law. Her background in property and litigation gives her a strong edge in complex financial and parenting matters. Melody is passionate about helping families resolve disputes through Family Dispute Resolution and practical, child-focused outcomes. As a local mother of two, she brings empathy and real-world understanding to every case she handles.

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