with Melody van der Wallen, Principal Lawyer at Wallen Family Law

Taking the first step and booking a consultation with a family lawyer can feel daunting.

Many people don’t know what to bring, what will be discussed, or whether they’ll be judged for not having everything “ready.”

Melody van der Wallen, Principal Lawyer at Wallen Family Law, says the first meeting is designed to make clients feel calm and informed. “It’s a conversation, not a cross-examination,” she explains. “You don’t need to have everything figured out — that’s what we’re here for.”

The Purpose of the First Consultation

The first consultation is all about understanding your situation and giving you clear, practical advice on your options.

You’ll have the opportunity to explain what’s been happening, ask questions, and get a roadmap for what comes next.

“Most people leave their first meeting feeling lighter,” Melody says. “They finally have answers — and a plan.”

The discussion might cover parenting arrangements, property division, financial issues, or safety concerns. It’s also a chance to discuss how our fixed-fee structure works and what your next steps could be.

What to Bring (and What You Don’t Need Yet)

You don’t need to arrive with a folder full of documents, but a few key items can help us make the most of your session.

We send you a detailed intake form electronically prior to your meeting with us so you can provide us with any relevant Court Orders, correspondence, or documents you already have — and a short list of your main questions or concerns.

“If you don’t have paperwork yet, that’s fine,” Melody says. “We can explain what will be needed later. The goal of the first meeting is clarity, not homework.”

Our Approach — Calm, Clear and Supportive

From the moment you sit down, the focus is on creating a safe, respectful space where you feel heard.

“Family law is emotional — and we understand that,” Melody explains. “We take the time to listen before giving advice. It’s not one-size-fits-all.”

Clients are guided step by step through what to expect next — including whether negotiation, mediation, or formal applications might be appropriate.

At the end of the consultation, you’ll leave with an email summary outlining your next steps so you can move forward with confidence.

How to Prepare Emotionally

Family law issues often carry deep emotional weight, and that’s completely normal.

“You don’t need to apologise for being upset,” Melody says. “These are personal matters. We’re here to help you navigate them with compassion and structure.”

Many clients bring a trusted support person or take notes during the meeting. Whatever helps you feel most comfortable is absolutely fine.

Why Early Advice Helps

Seeing a lawyer early doesn’t make things adversarial — it makes them clear.

“The sooner you understand your position, the more options you have,” Melody explains. “Early advice can often prevent conflict later.”

Even if you’re not ready to take formal steps, a consultation helps you feel informed and protected. It’s about knowledge and calm, not confrontation.

Quick Answers

How long will the first consultation take?
Usually around one hour. Longer sessions can be arranged if your matter is complex.

What will it cost?
We offer a fixed-fee consultation — so you’ll know the cost upfront before we begin.

Do I need to bring documents?
Bring anything you already have, but don’t worry if you’re not organised yet. The focus is on understanding your situation.

Will I leave with a plan?
Yes. You’ll leave knowing where you stand, what your options are, and what the next steps look like.

Is the meeting confidential?
Absolutely. Everything discussed in your consultation is private and protected by confidentiality and legal privilege.

From Melody

“Your first consultation is the start of turning uncertainty into clarity. You don’t need to come prepared with answers — just be ready to talk. Our job is to listen, guide and help you move forward with confidence.”

– Melody van der Wallen, Principal Lawyer, Wallen Family Law